Just Friends is in essence, a relationship, a potential relationship or teased relationship between people who are simply Just Friends, in a normal, and regular manner. The force with which the two deny any feelings is always inversely proportional to the truth. What should I do? I'm genuinely in loss at what to do, I've asked her what we should do and whatever it is I'll be fine with it I even suggested a small break but yeah it'll hurt her.Platonic friends who have the possibility for romantic intimacy but explicitly reject it. I want us to end up together in the long term, I don't know what I'm going to do if I lose her. I cannot find any other women attractive anymore, she is the only person that's perfect in my eyes. I really love that women and I will continue to put up with her because she is worth it.
It is about that I chose to be here with her, I could've left the moment she opened up about her issued in the first 3 weeks of knowing her, but I chose to stay. She keeps mentioning that I don't deserve this and that I'm way too good for her and I keep on reassuring her that saying that won't change the way I feel about her and that it’s not about whether I don't deserve it or not. She has been through a lot of traumatic events despite her toxic relationship with her ex. but either option will end up hurting her. I really love her and I'd rather see her not in my life but happy rather than her being in my life but unhappy even if it'll kill me, she'd be alright and that's what matters to me. So, I told her that we can stop talking so she gets detached from me and lose her feeling, but she said that'll hurt even more. I felt like shit when she said it, I still do.
She mentioned that she felt stuck (she was stuck in her previous relationship and barley got out of it in one piece it took a toll on her so I promised her that we can stop dating the moment she feels she's trapped) but this time we're not dating, and she's trapped. we even started sexting and sending lewd pictures to each other.īut the day after she started getting terrified of how we are so attached to each other, how she gets vulnerable and how her feelings for me is stronger and stronger than before. We started connected more and even better than the 7 days where we tried to see if our long-term plans match. But she said something that caught me off guard, she said that she might be in love with me and she slowly started romantic affection to me, so I started doing the same. for 10 days it was purely platonic but one night she was really really exhausted almost thought she was drunk (she describe this as drunk tired), and she was typing a lot of stuff about herself and the issues that she suffers from that I already know of. I was obviously shattered and torn apart, but I was also understanding and decided it was best to continue as friends and we did that.
Until the 3rd day of us dating, she started getting cold and distant and it was very obvious so I told her about it and she said that both of us aren't ready for a relationship and especially her because it required her being vulnerable and it terrifies her because she just got out of a 4 year toxic relationship in April. It was all great, I have never felt better before. the next 7 days were all sweet talk and trying to see if our long term plans could match up because if they don't it wouldn't work if we get there and it would be a waste of time, but fortunately it did so we started officially dating and knew she was mine and I was hers. a week later she said she did have feelings for me but communicating was tough for her and that is why she rejected me last week. I confessed my feelings for her after 3 weeks of knowing each other and daily talking but she said she didn't feel the same, it tore me apart but I still cared for her as a friend so we stayed where we are. I am from the middle east and she's from the U.S. I met this beautiful girl on discord 2-3 months ago and we instantly clicked, the connection was so strong, and we care about each other deeply.
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